What you are facing when choosing to go study abroad
Bureaucratic Procedures
For once, all those formalities one has to take care of when they
arrive are indeed frustrating. Students tend to be quite attracted to
Europe when taking a gap year,
or applying for an exchange program especially from overseas. Europe
indeed welcomes foreign students yet laws are laws, and every student
shall obey. Find a decent place to stay is usually troublesome, not to
mention decent roommates. Applying for the student visa, residency permit along with other legal procedures concerning the right to stay and work in the designated country is no joke, especially if you have to have serious conversations in a foreign language.
Cultural Differences
Wherever you go you will face a cultural shock.
The food, the way they dress and their behavior in the streets changes
without even going deeper to the roots of the traditions and customs.
Apart from it being very interesting to experience sometimes it is quite
challenging to comprehend. Remember you are no guest, so you will be
treated with zero tolerance.
If you can’t speak the native language you might as well be
damn fluent in English; even then there is a chance you’ll be ignored.
While at some festive ceremony you will have to learn to behave otherwise no party for you, my friend.
Every nation treats rejection differently, so you’ll have to be careful when turning down a request.
Living with roommates can be fun, as long as you respect
some boundaries and make compromises. Out here everyone is “special” in
some way. If there is a no long shower policy, you better respect that.
Formal dinners are always challenging, especially if you
will be dining around complete strangers living under some strange
manners (to you). Don’t be ashamed to ask first before you make a move.
Language
Language is one hell of a barrier if you are living in a foreign
country. I strongly suggest you get started on some intensive language
course, if the University won’t provide any.
Academic Difficulties
Universities follow diverse curricula within a city; imagine how
different things are when you are studying in a different country.
The lectures can be way more interactive from what you
expected; the stress of having to respond to a professor’s question in
the native language might blur your opinions and leave you empty handed.
On the other hand there is always the risk of not understanding a word
your professor is saying.
Figuring out the way your homework shall be done is rather
easy, you just ask your fellow colleagues. Yet, what if their answer is
just a prank?
University calls for some serious readings, some of which you won’t be able to understand even in your mother language.
The way exams are shaped is one of the major differences
between Universities. You can spend all that time focusing on the wrong
questions, while the things you should’ve learned are right there in
front of you.
Talking in front of the class takes courage. May courage be with you?
While some professors appreciate questions after the class
is over, some might be annoyed by such an initiative. Watch and learn,
let someone else make the mistakes for you.
Emotional Burden
Your emotional well being will go through different phases during your stay in the foreign country.
No matter how hard it will be to separate from your loved ones, in the
beginning you will be overwhelmed by the euphoria of the huge change.
Eager to capture everything at once, the first few days will be
relentless, like some curious tourist trying to know everything about
the city and its people.
With days passing, you will start feeling homesick and
spend days online talking to your friends and family, ignoring the life
that is actually waiting for you outside those doors. Depression might
overwhelm you, if you aren’t strong enough; you will consequently pack
your bags and go back to your comfort zone. If not, you will continue
the journey.
Once you are over with crying and whining, you will pull
yourself together and go out there to make friends. Friends will bring
other friends along and so you will again feel the sense of belonging.
Work Load vs. Time Lapse
Meanwhile back at home, all you cared about was maintaining a balance
between your heart, brains and your body; now you will have to take
care of everything on its right time.
Household duties for once will always be waiting for you to come home; not something you look forward to.
Eating and sleeping right is a major challenge, they somehow tend to disappear of your busy schedule.
Punctuality won’t be one of your major strong spots in the beginning yet you will adjust with time, eventually.
If you don’t start prioritizing soon enough, you will get
caught in a complete chaos. Trust me; losing your job is something you
don’t want to experience when you are thousands of km away from home.
Finances
Managing your funds is a side project that will require your full
attention. If you are not careful enough with your monthly expenditure
you will regret the day you were born. As I mentioned earlier, as an
expat you will be treated with zero tolerance.
- Hunt for a scholarship or financial aid to alleviate your tuition fees.
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Get a part-time job that won’t impede your normal University routine.
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Pay your bills regularly, all of them.
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Cook your meals instead of eating outside in expensive restaurants; money goes, and it goes fast.
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Use public transportation instead of taxis, or get a bike.
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Put money on the side for “emergencies”.
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Careful when purchasing health insurance, get the package that is affordable and covers all the necessary services.
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Try not to break any laws, otherwise you will be broke in no time.
Good Luck